St. Valentine’s Day, also known as Lovers’ Day, has a rich history. According to history.com, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred. One legend suggests that Valentine, a priest in Rome during the third century, defied Emperor Claudius II's decree banning marriage for young men because he believed in the injustice of the law. Despite the risk, Valentine continued to solemnize marriages for young lovers in secret, leading to his eventual execution when his actions were uncovered.
Others believe that Saint Valentine of Terni, a bishop, was the true inspiration for the holiday. He, too, faced execution by Claudius II outside Rome. Some stories even suggest that Valentine attempted to aid Christians in escaping brutal Roman prisons, where they endured torture and abuse. Legend has it that while imprisoned, Valentine himself sent the first "valentine" greeting to a young girl, possibly the daughter of his jailer, whom he had fallen in love with during his captivity. Before his death, it is said that he wrote her a letter signed "From your Valentine," a phrase that remains popular today.
In Nigeria, Valentine’s Day is widely celebrated every February 14th. Many young people spend time with loved ones, exchanging gifts and enjoying romantic moments. Older couples and friends also participate, often sharing candle-lit dinners, exchanging gifts, and reaffirming their bonds. Red is the color of celebration, with many people incorporating it into their attire to mark the occasion. While I believe St. Valentine’s Day is deserving of celebration, it's unfortunate that the true essence of the day has been overshadowed by materialism and carnal indulgence.
Do we truly exhibit love and kindness toward one another anymore? It seems to have become a rarity. In our relentless pursuit of wealth and luxurious lifestyles, society has become fragmented, with people caring less for one another. Political leaders often neglect their duty to ensure the security and welfare of citizens, focusing instead on personal gain. Corruption runs rampant, with individuals entrusted with public funds shamelessly embezzling billions meant for the vulnerable and needy.
Recent events, such as the tragic helicopter crash that claimed the lives of Dr. Herbert Wigwe, his wife, and son, highlight the stark contrast between opulence and poverty. Dr. Wigwe, residing in a lavish mansion worth billions, passed away amidst widespread poverty. It is a sobering reminder of the need for the wealthy to prioritize philanthropy and support for the less fortunate. The world requires more acts of charity to alleviate suffering and deprivation.
Religious institutions should also reconsider their priorities, focusing more on welfare and charity rather than material accumulation. Rather than competing to build extravagant places of worship, they should invest in schools, hospitals, and social services accessible to all, regardless of religious affiliation. Labor unions, too, have the potential to contribute positively to society by establishing educational and healthcare facilities for their members and the broader community.
On a personal level, I am committed to supporting the education of my children, relatives, and friends, despite limited resources. Even small acts of kindness, such as offering words of encouragement and emotional support, can make a difference in someone's life. As the lyrics of the song "We Are the World" remind us, there comes a time when we must come together to lend a helping hand to those in need.